I'm drawn to those who plan with intention, know how to lead, and create something worth looking forward to... with the memories to match. Thoughtful details, a clear plan, and a sense of direction... that's where the chemistry begins for me.
I aim for experiences that feel relaxed, engaging, and naturally immersive; the kind where conversation flows easily, tension builds naturally, and neither of us feels rushed. We spend our time together at ease, leaving plenty of room to unfold naturally.
Some dates are built around a beautiful dinner and lingering conversation, others around museums, gardens, a spa day, cocktails somewhere dimly lit, live music, or perhaps something a little out of the ordinary. Sometimes, the perfect plan is simply disappearing into a hotel suite for the evening. My favorite dates balance chemistry, atmosphere, and shared experience; something that feels memorable rather than overly transactional.
While I do offer shorter dates, I don't often accommodate them. I strongly prefer experiences with enough time for us both to settle in and genuinely enjoy each other.
When I'm home, Incall is hosted from a private apartment in Uptown, Minneapolis. While on tour, I typically host from a hotel or Airbnb. Outcalls are available within the Greater Twin Cities area and on select tours, hosted at hotels only. While I generally prefer our first date be incall, a thoughtful plan has been known to persuade me otherwise.
For 3H+ dates, I typically like to spend at least one hour together in public; dinner, a conservatory stroll, live music, a museum, or another shared experience helps set the tone beautifully. If you'd prefer something more discreet, indoor-only dates are absolutely welcome, check below under considerations for more info.
Date inspiration is often shared on my Instagram and Bluesky.
If this resonates, I invite you to review my Bookings page — a little preparation makes everything flow effortlessly.
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Experiences
1H | a taste of time | 700
Returning Clients only
1.5H | soft introduction | 1000
Returning Clients only
2H | proper introduction | 1300
Returning Clients only
3H | dinner, laughter, desire | 1700
First Date Minimum
4H | first date preference | 2000
6H | an evening that lingers | 2400
8H | day or night, no rush | 2800
Extended • GFE
16H | overnight (7PM–11AM) | 4000
24H | a full day | 6000
36H | a lingering getaway | 8000
48H | two days to disappear | 10000
72H+ | the kind of trip you don’t rush | 13000+
*first two days 5000/day • additional days 3000/day
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A Few Considerations
Outcall: +200 (typically reserved for established clients)
Indoor-only 3H+ dates: +400 and up (refreshments + light activity like a movie or game is requested)
Add a Full Body Sensual Massage: +200
Custom Kink Requests: starting at +300
Couples: 1.5x rate, 3H minimum
Add Date Coaching to GFE: +500
In-date extensions: 600/hour (when available)
Last-minute availability (within 24H): starting at +200
Late night/early morning requests: starting at +200
Tours • GFE
1H | a quick hello | 800
Returning Clients only
1.5H | brief introduction | 1150
Returning Clients only
2H | short & sweet | 1500
Returning Clients only
3H | dinner date | 2000
First Date Minimum
4H | first date preference | 2400
6H | dinner & a show | 3000
8H | lunch & spa day | 3600
16H | overnight | 5600
24H | day & night, no rush | 8400
Minneapolis Exclusive
Whether you're getting back into dating after years away, building confidence, having trouble navigating modern dating, or simply wanting honest feedback in a judgment-free environment, this experience is designed to help someone like you!
Think of it as a low-pressure first date with room to learn. We'll enjoy dinner together while I offer thoughtful observations on conversation, body language, style, etiquette, and the little social cues that often go unnoticed.
Real confidence comes from experience, not theory, and certainly not random 'influencers' who are giving the same information to everyone. My goal isn't to turn you into someone else or teach you rehearsed lines. It's to help you become a more confident, observant, and authentic version of yourself; this is what women love and look for!
After years of meeting people from every walk of life, I've developed an eye for the small details that make someone feel comfortable, confident, and genuinely enjoyable to be around.
3H | dinner date | 900
Good food, better conversation
4-6H | shopping + dinner | 1200-1800
Refresh your wardrobe with a date outfit hand-picked by the two of us before dinner, or simply give us some extra time
Part of the experience is planning the date. You'll choose the restaurant and cover our meal, just as you would with any other date. I simply ask that you select somewhere comfortably within your budget.
No intimacy is included on practice dates.
All my normal screening requirements apply.
Practice Dates
Available by request, worldwide.
Minimum:
Continental United States: 6 hours
Hawaii, Alaska, & International: 48 hours
Arrangements:
• Round-trip airfare
• Flights over 4 hours: business or first class please
• 4–5 star hotel accommodations
Fly me to You (FMTY)
Drive me to You (DMTY)
Available by request within a 4H driving radius of the Twin Cities.
Minimum:
4 hours
Arrangements:
• $100 per hour travel fee
• 4–5 star hotel accommodations
A relaxed afternoon in good company, lunch, and a little retail therapy. Whether we're wandering the Galleria, exploring MOA, or hunting for hidden gems across the country, this experience is designed to be fun, easygoing, and pressure-free.
No intimacy is included on shopping dates.
3H | spoiled afternoon | $300
Minimum $1000 shopping budget
4H | retail therapy | $400
Minimum $1500 shopping budget
6H | shopping spree | $600
Minimum $2000 shopping budget
Should we decide we're having entirely too much fun to part ways, additional private time may be possible for an additional consideration, subject to availability. Hotel accommodations are required, though I may be able to assist with arrangements when needed.
All my normal screening requirements apply.
Shopping Dates
Creative Consulting
Whether you’re a sex worker, creative, or just your typical small business owner, I offer thoughtful guidance on branding, marketing, website flow, touring strategy, social presence, and building something that actually feels aligned with you.
I studied marketing, social media marketing, and website development before building my own independent brand full-time and I’ve spent the years since refining what actually works.
Marketing & Brand Consulting
1H | strategy session | 300
A focused consultation for branding, touring, marketing, social media, website flow, pricing, or business direction.
3H | deep dive | 750
A more immersive working session for restructuring your brand, refining your marketing, reviewing your site, content planning, or building a clearer long-term strategy.
30 Days | guided rebrand | 3000+
Ongoing support for providers or small businesses ready to refine their image, improve client quality, and create a more intentional business structure.
60–90 Days | full business development | inquire
A highly personalized consulting experience focused on long-term growth, branding, marketing direction, touring strategy, systems, and overall business refinement.
Website Design & Brand Presence
Website Audits | starting at 300
Review of your current website, branding, copy, structure, tone, SEO, and user flow with actionable recommendations.
Website Builds & Reworks | inquire
Elegant, personality-driven websites designed to feel cohesive, intentional, and aligned with your brand.
Inquire about Marketing/Website services via my email Bookings@EmberlynSlade.com with subject line: LG Marketing Services
Please include the following information to be considered:
1) Current Website, Social Media, and/or Business Page
2) Your location
3) Services you're looking for
4) Your goals
I look forward to meeting with you!
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