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FMTY + DMTY

Some things are too good to keep local. Whether you’re in a high-rise suite, a tucked-away town, or somewhere between meetings in the middle of nowhere ~ just say when, and I’ll make a trip worth savoring.

✈️ Fly Me to You (FMTY)

Desire doesn’t care about distance. From city lights to hidden getaways, I’ll meet you wherever the chemistry calls.

A simple flat travel fee for flights/accommodation is added to my time, based on your location:

Midwest & Central U.S.
$1500 travel • 6 hour minimum
Minneapolis is well connected ~ perfect for a quick escape.

East Coast, South & Northeast
$1800 travel • 6 hour minimum
From D.C. to Dallas, Boston to Miami ~ just say when.

West Coast
$2000 travel • 8 hour minimum
Think beach sunsets, coastal wine, and luxury hotels.

Alaska & Hawaii
$3000 travel • 24 hour minimum
For those truly unforgettable moments.

International & Everywhere Else
$5000+ travel • 36 hour minimum
Let’s get our passports stamped.

Exclusivity: Add $1500 to ensure I’m all yours. This can be applied toward a second date. Without exclusivity, I may choose to add the FMTY to my list of tour destinations.

🚗 Drive Me to You (DMTY)

Closer than a flight, but just as unforgettable. Whether it’s a cozy town or a tucked-away retreat on Lake Superior ~ I’ll come to you.

A flat travel fee is added to my time, based on roundtrip drive time. (This includes drive time, mileage, and overnight accommodations.)

Up to 2 hours round trip
$500 travel • 4 hour minimum
Simple, smooth, and close to home.

Up to 4 hours round trip
$800 travel • 6 hour minimum
Ideal for a more generous connection in your space.

Up to 6 hours round trip
$1000 travel • 6 hour minimum
For destinations a bit farther out ~ when privacy matters and presence is everything.

At my discretion, I may reduce the travel fee for dates that are especially well-timed, well-located, or simply too lovely to resist.

Exclusivity: Add $1500 to ensure I’m all yours. This can be applied toward a second date. Without exclusivity, I may choose to add the DMTY to my list of tour destinations.

Investment

4H ............ 1700 (DMTY minimum)
6H ............ 2300 (FMTY minimum)
8H ............ 2700
10H .......... 3200
12H .......... 3700
16H ......... 4500
24H ......... 6000

36H ......... 8500
48H ......... 10000
72H+ ....... First two days 5K/day then 3K/day thereafter

3H+ Dates require 1H minimum in public: dinner, a show, a walk in a garden... I post inspiration on Bluesky. **If you are concerned about discretion, we can stay indoors for +$300, and you must bring refreshments.

Late Night / Early Morning fee: $200+ (outside standard hours; 8H+ exempt)

Availability for FMTY/DMTY is signified by an airplane on this page - click here

Deposits

FMTY/DMTY/Extended: 50% of rate + travel fee based on geography

Accepted via:

  • CashApp

  • Apple Pay

  • BTC

  • Throne Travel Fund

  • Credit/Debit (via Square +4% fee - ES Inc on card statement)

  • Cash sent to my business address (5+ days from date, with tracking)

Remaining balance due in cash only at the beginning of our date.

Extended Engagement Expectations

  • At least 7H of uninterrupted sleep

  • Separate bed for sleeping unless previously discussed + mutual rapport

  • Minimum 2 hour/day to myself for gym, meditation, Pilates, journaling, a nap, errands, etc. I'm not “on” 24/7 during extended engagements ~ I need moments to be quiet, recharge, or just exist, without small talk or attention expected.

  • 3 meals per day must be worked into our schedule together.

  • FYI: Travel Fee is what covers my travel time, lodging, and flights/gas.

Travel Notes

I’m passport-ready and enrolled in TSA PreCheck + CLEAR

You can find date ideas and things I love in my Bio and on my Bluesky.

Need help planning? I’m an excellent trip designer ~ happy to assist with suggestions or full itinerary planning for a small additional fee.